Break Up Sex

Having sex after a break up ( break up sex )is not something that broken up couples would admit to. Usually, sex happens even if no reconciliation occurs. So, others may say, why bother?

The answer is simple. You still feel something for your partner, even if you think it's just lust. Mostly, it's the longing to be with that person in a way that reflects the times when you were happier. However, there are some ways to transform it into make up sex, and here's how:

1. Romantic Sex

Bring in the champagne and the chocolate covered strawberries. Dim the lights and play soft, jazzy music.

Break up sex is an emotionally charged affair, but the emotions need not be negative.

Why not give your ex the most romantic sex he or she has ever had, for the sake of the love you once shared? If you play your cards right, you might not even have to go through with the break up if you make your partner fall in love with you again.

2. Show Your Wild Side

Breakup sex can be invigorating. In a way, it's the last time you're going to make love to your partner so you can show a kinky side and really leave a lasting memory. The good news is that if your partner likes this 'new' side of yours, he or she might just reconsider and take you back.

Making love after you've broken up is a way to make your partner remember the happy times. Intimacy is something that will always exist between you and your partner, and feeling that intensely intimate emotion during love making is still the best way to make up.

A Word of Caution!

Break up sex can backfire if you are hoping that it will bring your ex back.

It can be addictive even if it was intended to be a once off thing. You may end up feeling used.

My advice is that if you trying to get over your ex after a breakup, avoid sex by all means.

It will only make it harder to get over your ex.

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